CryBaby Memory?

So,
wife started reading a new book.

365 ways to soothe a crying baby.
So... you think when they got to number 362, or 363, they were just making stuff up? I think so. I bet the author just pulled some bogus stuff out their butt. haha

Anyhow, the book says dont let a baby cry too long, because they can forget what they were crying about in the first place

baby whisperer talks about not spoiling the baby by picking her up each time she cries.

What to do?
Just find out what is best for your baby.
Its a challenge not to break your baby's spirit, but also not to raise a brat.

I want her to be independent, but not a punk.
I want her to be respectful, but not some wormy coward
I want her to be bold, but not a rabbelrouser.

its a balance.

I've seen too many bad kids
but also a lot of robot kids too

hm...
For now, we see, if its a real cry, or a fake cry.

ttyl folks
Sam